Saturday, February 23, 2013

Five Relationship Myths!

By Sunaina Patnaik at Saturday, February 23, 2013

It is strange how we read books, watch novels and hallucinate that every relationship is perfect. You know it is just the same story in fiction--Boy meets girl, girl meets boy, they exchange looks, books, texts and bam! They are so into each other, ignore the world around them, run around the trees and creepers and run into the sunset. And most of these books and movies seem to be interesting. Obviously! But they display so many myths. For instance, let me list them down.

1. Relationships survive and happen only to the good-looking people: God! This is such a common one, right? The protagonists in the book are always like Tom Cruise and Angelina Jolie. Of course, most of us will abandon the books that have ugly protagonists so, I won't talk like a saint here.

The thing I am trying to point here is the stories that portray how a boy ignores the girl, the girl sits and cries, and it suddenly dawns on her that things can change and turns from drab to fab overnight. Chi! 

2. Fights are a proof that a relationship has reached the saturation point:

Duh? Shut up! It isn't like that.
Ages ago, my uncle told me that the moment we stop fighting with our partners is when the relationship has reached the saturation because you simply do not care. You just let them be.

3. People with similar nature and perceptions are the best for each other:

Oh yeah? And get bored of the person in two months? Because you are just too similar and you feel like you are in a relationship with yourself. Or may be, not. 

But hey this is just my perception. It is my blog. I rule. :P

4. Couples who are in a relationship for a very long period are the happiest couples:

Of course! The others are the sad, demented ones who are probably in a delusional phase till they attain the veteran status and they automatically turn happy and joyous. Sweet, sweet life!

5. Awesome couples do everything together:

And scare the crap out of people around them. You know what? You aren't Siamese twins. Awesome couples need space and have individuality. Demented couples act clingy and do things together.

P.S. If any reader finds these points similar to their life, I am sorry. No pun intended. No, really!


Asisha on 23 Feb 2013, 06:04:00 said...

Well Written!! :D
As always,.. ;)

Sunaina on 23 Feb 2013, 06:10:00 said...

Geee! :-D

Sushmit on 23 Feb 2013, 06:28:00 said...

The 'Chi' in the first point :D :D

Sunaina on 23 Feb 2013, 06:43:00 said...


Aditya Kasibhatla on 23 Feb 2013, 07:31:00 said...

You are turning out to be a love guru! :P

AaeKay :) on 23 Feb 2013, 07:59:00 said...

Haha I like this post! :D
'Chi' lol!

Sunaina on 23 Feb 2013, 08:06:00 said...

Thanks so much! :)

Sunaina on 23 Feb 2013, 08:07:00 said...

Shut up Aditya!

Jemina on 24 Feb 2013, 10:25:00 said...


Lazy Pineapple on 24 Feb 2013, 23:02:00 said...

Oh yeah...nicely done :)

I have seen many couples who do everything together. I guess that is just at the start of the relationship.

Sunaina on 25 Feb 2013, 08:05:00 said...

@Jemina: Thank you! :)

@Lazy Pineapple: Oh yes. Thanks! :)


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